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Hello!

Stuffed.
Golden streamers in my hair.
Stuffed .. Or have I said that already.
Happpppppy Newwwww Yeaaarrr!
-Blingeshwari

A random thought – about her

I think of you randomly. Whenever I write a poem, for instance.
I think of you how you would gently mail me, twisting my monkey ears over faulty grammar. Or a misplaced period. How you would then praise a certain turn of phrase. Listening to Rafi last night, I thought of our casual banter.
I am no [...]

Hunting for Yaman / Kalyan

Back to digging gems from the YouTube treasure trove. Sort of in the mood for Raag Yaman/ Kalyan. Perfect for the evening or the first quarter of the night. This one is just incredible. Chupa Lo Yun Dil Mein Pyaar Mera. I suddenly thought of it and it came to me, flooding little spaces.

The [...]

Film: Slumdog Millionaire

I have now joined the esteemed ranks of those who have seen Slumdog Millionaire. It’s a wonderful film – in parts.
I thought somebody described this as a feel-good film. It is anything but. The thing is, the only positive bit in this film is in the last 8 minutes and you get this sinking feeling [...]

Essay on “Not Rape”

*trigger – Warning – if you’re not in the right frame of mind to read about sexual assault, don’t read further*
Moving essay. But more than moving, it is shockingly articulate. The idea of a “Not Rape” …
What we were not prepared for was everything else. Rape was something we could identify, an act with a [...]

On Men and Hair

So I am standing in the queue, waiting to pay for some clothes that we’re buying. A couple ahead of me is studying with immense concentration a poster with an almost naked man in Calvin Klein undies. Woman tells man that she thinks the hairless and gym-going-type man in the poster is a hottie.
The man [...]

Film: Ghajini

This is not a bad film. At all.
I think it pretty much is paisa vasool. Hopefully, you won’t be too bored. My guess is that you need to suspend your mental facilities that help you understand how logic works. The same way the protagonist is forced to suspend his reliance on memory. He has some [...]