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	<title>Comments on: Film: Dostana</title>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://www.withinandwithout.com/2008/11/film-dostana/comment-page-1/#comment-18382</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 09:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The movie went as far as it could go and still be a mainstream commerical movie.  The scenes with Kirron Kher are the socially progressive scenes in the movie that show estrangement from one&#039;s family due to coming out, and then acceptance.  It doesn&#039;t negate it all that Sam and Kunal are not technically gay in that scene, there is still empathy for the estrangement.  

The use of Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham background music is inspired as the theme of that movie is very relevant to the situation. 

The end, whether one sees the kiss or not, is bold nonetheless, to have a crowd cheering on a kiss and making that the climax, rather than reacting negatively.

I really didn&#039;t find it stereotypical or offensive ... Mainstream Hollywood movies would do much the same.  Dostana is actually ahead of Hollywood in terms of showing same-sex couples as being normal and openly gay soldiers being normal -- yes, in the U.S., and yes that isn&#039;t actually true in real life, but the movie never once implies that the normalcy is a bad thing for the society that it&#039;s in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The movie went as far as it could go and still be a mainstream commerical movie.  The scenes with Kirron Kher are the socially progressive scenes in the movie that show estrangement from one&#8217;s family due to coming out, and then acceptance.  It doesn&#8217;t negate it all that Sam and Kunal are not technically gay in that scene, there is still empathy for the estrangement.  </p>
<p>The use of Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham background music is inspired as the theme of that movie is very relevant to the situation. </p>
<p>The end, whether one sees the kiss or not, is bold nonetheless, to have a crowd cheering on a kiss and making that the climax, rather than reacting negatively.</p>
<p>I really didn&#8217;t find it stereotypical or offensive &#8230; Mainstream Hollywood movies would do much the same.  Dostana is actually ahead of Hollywood in terms of showing same-sex couples as being normal and openly gay soldiers being normal &#8212; yes, in the U.S., and yes that isn&#8217;t actually true in real life, but the movie never once implies that the normalcy is a bad thing for the society that it&#8217;s in.</p>
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		<title>By: Maya</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 05:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice one maami... I like the point about humour defusing situations. This is where the horrid PC police come in, usually within rather than without. for something to be truly funny it has to be a little mean (i think), for something to be interesting it has to be a little angry (i think).... it is the nature of humour/comedy itself. ethnic humour being case in point...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice one maami&#8230; I like the point about humour defusing situations. This is where the horrid PC police come in, usually within rather than without. for something to be truly funny it has to be a little mean (i think), for something to be interesting it has to be a little angry (i think)&#8230;. it is the nature of humour/comedy itself. ethnic humour being case in point&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Aravind</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aravind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 17:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>economic recession.. cost cutting...its rather costume cutting...lols..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>economic recession.. cost cutting&#8230;its rather costume cutting&#8230;lols..</p>
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		<title>By: rads</title>
		<link>http://www.withinandwithout.com/2008/11/film-dostana/comment-page-1/#comment-18357</link>
		<dc:creator>rads</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 15:37:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ah, my 2 favorite hot men and the characters they play don&#039;t kiss? Bah! Chickens!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ah, my 2 favorite hot men and the characters they play don&#8217;t kiss? Bah! Chickens!</p>
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		<title>By: Dostana and Gays &#124; DesiPundit</title>
		<link>http://www.withinandwithout.com/2008/11/film-dostana/comment-page-1/#comment-18344</link>
		<dc:creator>Dostana and Gays &#124; DesiPundit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 08:27:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Neha thinks that the gags have at least improved from the Kal Ho Na Ho days. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: The Guy Next Door</title>
		<link>http://www.withinandwithout.com/2008/11/film-dostana/comment-page-1/#comment-18334</link>
		<dc:creator>The Guy Next Door</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:35:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am with you on this one : &quot;If I find some bits of Dostana offensive, do I have the right to be offended at all. &quot;

Otherwise a Bollywood buff, I have decided not to see the movie as a principle, as I am pretty sure it contains stereotypical and offensive references to Gays. You can argue its all in a light vein but still its one thing to laugh on yourself versus laughing at someone else&#039;s cost. If Karan Johan declared himself gay publicly, I wouldnt have any problems going to the movie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am with you on this one : &#8220;If I find some bits of Dostana offensive, do I have the right to be offended at all. &#8221;</p>
<p>Otherwise a Bollywood buff, I have decided not to see the movie as a principle, as I am pretty sure it contains stereotypical and offensive references to Gays. You can argue its all in a light vein but still its one thing to laugh on yourself versus laughing at someone else&#8217;s cost. If Karan Johan declared himself gay publicly, I wouldnt have any problems going to the movie.</p>
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		<title>By: buddy</title>
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		<dc:creator>buddy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 19:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>vaaranam released in boston...not dostana though sigh!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>vaaranam released in boston&#8230;not dostana though sigh!</p>
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